August 13, 2011 8:04:42 PM HKT
Reader's Q:
I love my boyfriend very much, and I enjoy having sex with him, but it's not always great. There are times that he's not completely clean and the sex is "messy." This totally turns me off, and he gets really embarrassed. What should we do to make sure we are "clean" before having sex?
Answer:
Anal sex can be very messy if the person receiving does not clean before the sexual act. Some gay guys use a Feminine Douche System (Bulb Style) before having anal sex. Some use a hose or a shower head adapter to gentle washing of the anal muscle with mild soap and warm water while bathing or showering.
Just remember to do #2 before cleaning, be very careful and very gentle. Read all the instructions on how to Douche from the box. Since I am not a doctor, I don't know if anal douche is safe, so you should ask your doctor before. You can buy any of the products in any walgreens or drug store under the female products section.
This post was edited by Lucas Lu at August 13, 2011 8:06:56 PM HKT
